You know he's trying to be the perfect Dom for you when:
1) you ask him if there's something he'd like you to wear, and his reply is Black tee and pants - don't wear a bra;
2) you're having drinks by the beach and he puts his arm on the back of the couch so that he can tug ever so slightly on your ponytail, reminding you who's in control - a feeling you love - and he knows it;
3) he's driving you home and reaches across to pinch your nipple through the flimsy fabric of your top;
4) you're having a playful conversation in the car and he starts rubbing his hand between your legs making you moan - and then tells you to continue touching yourself as he concentrates on the road;
5) he puts a pause on his desire to fuck you silly long enough to change the light bulb in the bathroom, cos he knows you probably won't be able to think of anything else until that's sorted out;
6) he 'suggests' you give his cock some attention and then proceeds to grab your hair and fuck your mouth while telling you how much he enjoys fucking your face, and making you answer him (albeit in grunts and moans) when he asks if you like being his face-fuck-slut;
7) he takes up your offer to show him how your bra-less tits look in various white tees you own and fingers your increasingly wet pussy when you present yourself for his perusal of said tits after each change;
8) said fingering of pussy is causing you to become unstable and unbalanced on your feet and you have no choice but to ask for permission to collapse on the bed, which he approves so that he can then double his assault on you by alternating his attentions between clit and pussy despite your twitching legs and ragged breathing;
9) instead of saying nice romantic things and telling you he wants to make love to you (like most men do in vanilla-land) he growls at you to Get on your back so I can fuck you;
10) he chooses to exert his power by telling you to shush mid-fuck, just cos he can - and of course you do;

11) you kneel between his legs hugging his thighs while you chat, and he's stroking your head with one hand and rubbing your back with the other;
12) you're tucked into him as he hugs you tightly to his chest like a human bolster and you both find sleep.
You are an extremely good writer and your approach to these subjects is always enjoyable. What I am saying is that I like your blog.
ReplyDeleteAlso, the lightbulb made me laugh. Sounds like a great date night!
LOL thank you. I'm glad you like my blog.
Deleteand hey - the light bulb thing is a very real expression of just how well he knows me.
What a great list! Makes me smile...
ReplyDeleteaisha
;)
Deletemade me do MORE than smile...
I see, I still have a lot of work to do, to become perfect.
ReplyDeleteNow, now, this list is specific to us. It is by NO means exhaustive.
Deleteoooooooh yes!
ReplyDeleteI love the whole conversations while I'm sucking his cock thing, my husband does that all the time - delights in talking to me and asking me questions for which he insists on getting answers (muffled grunts)!
i know right? later on when we were just laying together in bed, i teased him saying he shouldn't be asking me questions to which he expects any discernible answer when he's busy shoving his cock in my face. He looked over at me, raised an eyebrow and calmly said, "But mmmmhhfffmm gggllllmmmmhh is an acceptable answer!"
DeleteAw, the lightbulb thing made me laugh! So sweet.
ReplyDeleteI was hoping it might. =)
Delete*shiver*
ReplyDelete*sigh*
Yummy!
(the lightbulb WAS pretty funny - they love us :) )
Oh they DO!
DeleteI was hoping people wouldn't roll their eyeballs at the light bulb thing - but hey, I HAD to put it down cos if you've learnt anything at all about me, you'll understand this was a monumentally brilliant move on his part.
Nope - I so totally get it. Sexy begins out of the bedroom & it's hard for a woman to feel sexy when she is worrying about little things that need to be done - so for him to take care of it without being asked is all like - knight in shining armor kind of epic :) And really in part what the Dominant partner does - takes care of us - and that is yummy!
DeleteSounds like a great date night!
ReplyDeleteThank you. It was excellent!
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