Where to Next? And Some Foto Treats from Bangkok

We've just recently come back from a trip to Thailand (Bangkok) where I spent a lot of time walking about the malls. Well, just the couple of malls near the hotel, because all the "traditional" sight-seeing had already been done in my youth when I visited with my family (it's a popular short-holiday destination if you live in Asia).

BIKSS was there for work. And I tagged along. It was more of a quick get-away than an actual vacation, if you know what I mean. 

BUT we're planning next year's holiday and have no idea where to go. Well, I have ONE idea, but am thinking about other possible options. 

At the moment we were thinking we could go to a different part of Tasmania than Hobart, since BIKSS enjoys the slower more laid-back pace in general, but that involves a pretty long flight.

Or we could do Hue in North Central Vietnam cos I want to visit the Basilica of Our Lady of La Vang (which is 90 mins drive from Hue) and some of the churches in Hue itself, the Phu Cam Cathedral being one of them - click the Images tab to see pics.

Hue also feels like the kind of place BIKSS might like. It's got a citadel, fort, moat etc., things that appeal to his love for military history. And it also has a great menu! That's something *I* will enjoy!

We also looked at Delhi. But I'm not sure I'll be able to survive the smell. 

There's the option of Dubai. But all that desert. And heat. 

So I dunno.. if you have any ideas about where we could go in Asia (if there's somewhere you've been that really made an impression on you) do leave a suggestion in the comments!

Since there aren't a lot of touristy pics, I'll leave you with a few choice selections from BKK - 

A fried donut bun with pork curry and cheese filling. It was surprisingly good. 

I'm going to stick cheese on my curry bowls from now on!

The view from or dinner venue the night before our departure.

Bikss got a mani (no polish) while I got a pedi. With their high tech drying system LOL. I mean, that's ONE way to get your customers out of the chair quickly. Time is money after all. And the shop had a steady stream of customers to be sure!

If there's ONE thing BKK has no shortage of, it's sweet treats! 

Here's more - 

(How cute is that hippo!)

(Local brand, based on K-beauty formulation and manufactured in Korea. I didn't get this, but I did pick up some foam cleansers and a bottle of bakuchiol serum.)

Japanese desserts and Korean cosmetics are really big in Thailand evidently.

MORE sweets - 

I had Afternoon Tea for brunch at the Cath Kidston Tea Room. It was probably the best scone I've ever had in my life. Lightly toasted, warm, and just a little hint of crisp on the outside, but fluffy, light and full of buttery flavour on the inside. The cakes were delicious. That there was an option for roobois was simply perfect!

My favourite brand for tinted sunblock. I made BIKSS buy 5 tubes for me the last time he was here without me. I still have some left from then. So I didn't need more this round. I DID pick up a powder compact for about $4 USD. Even tho' I do own and use Western brands like Clinique, Revlon and Physician's Formula, I find that Thai cosmetic brands have a better / wider / more nuanced range when it comes to matching their bases to Asian skin tones.

Spoils from the first day's shopping - 

This lot plus the big box of aromatherapy stuff I ordered to be delivered from Chiang Mai made up the bulk of my loot. I did pick up a few more small items (essential oil rollerballs, lip balms) but nothing I couldn't stuff into my already-gonna-be-too-full luggage. 

And last of all, my favourite thing to eat in Thailand - skewered grilled pork (left) aka Moo Ping. We went to get some the very night I arrived! 

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EPILOGUE

This trip has taught me 3 things - 

1) Don't bother bringing a swimsuit cos hotel pools are never really good for laps. And if I'm going to be swimming, it's gonna be for exercise. 

2) From next year onwards I'm not going to bother with souvenirs. It's just too much stress having to think about what to get everyone. 

3) I'm going to have to get a Medium sized suitcase cos my Cabin sized one is way too small for clothes AND shopping. As my girlfriend and I were discussing over the weekend - there is a minimum volume of luggage space that's automatically gonna go to the toiletries bag, the tech bag, the pharmaceuticals bag, and the one extra pair of shoes. Those 4 things are non-negotiable. That's already HALF the cabin bag. 

And with that, I shall leave you. I hope you enjoyed the pics/vids! 

Everlane Anyone?

I've heard a ton about this brand - they say the leather shoes are well made, durable, comfortable, need no breaking in, and some of them, like this one which is made from Nappa leather, are super-duper soft and a godsend for people with fussy feet (like me... bunions and what not - and by what not I mean sensory hypersensitivity). 

I've been wanting a pair of multi-occasion/cheat shoes that can double up as something a little more dressy, but could also just as easily be worn with jeans or a denim skirt. Covered toes means if I'm wearing longer pants it could likely pass off (at least from the front) as proper shoes 😁 The grey is a great neutral too.

I don't like actual court shoes because the back tends to hurt - see 'Notch' in pic below. And also to retain the shape of the shoe the 'Counter' tends to be pretty stiff. And then my whole foot hurts and my bunions start to complain.

I swear, if there is one thing I miss dearly about my youth it's that I could strut around in 3-inch heels all day, everyday. The bunions didn't happen until a year plus after my decision to chuck the heels and switch to ballet flats. Here's why that was a bad idea!

Anyway, I do already have two pairs of heeled sandals but they're strappy and open-toed and neither of them would work with a formal outfit.

Thing is, I have great faith in this brand, having asked a couple of friends who have tried their shoes, and from hearing it being recommended on some of the fashion blogs I follow...  BUT I just want to get as many opinions as I can. 

Has anyone who reads here ever tried their shoes? If so, which one(s) did you get and how was the sizing for you? Did they run big or small, or were there any other issues? 

Do let me know. Much appreciated!

Have some thank-you soy crisps!

Where do they get off...

thinking that they have a right to tell me I should be writing only BDSM-related stuff? 

On my last post an anon user left a comment saying they think I've lost the plot and is this a BDSM blog or a cooking blog? 

1) does it look like I'm cooking? 

2) did I say it was a BDSM-only blog? 

3) nobody held a gun to your head and made you read here. 

[EDIT - from this point forward any comment I DO NOT LIKE will be deleted and not published. The only reason I left the comment in question on my blog was so I could address it via a reply as well as in this post. And now that I have made my declaration, I shall no longer publish idiotic comments.]

Moving on... 

Having said that... I'm curious about what bits of my blog you enjoy. 

Leave a comment letting me know what you like, what you're not particularly thrilled about, and what you'd like to see more or less of. 

It could be content related (more food, less plants), it could be style (love pics, not so many words please) it could be snoopy (if my life sux you'll maybe feel better about your life), it could be knowledge expansion (wanna know about snails but too lazy to look it up), or just my personality (more wit and humour and snark please, less touchy feely stuff... ugh). 

Today's chip pic ~

What Would I Stockpile If Shops Were to Close for a Month?

If I had to go to the store and get food supplies for a month, this is probably going to be what my list will look like. 

1. Oats - for granola, for granola bars, for oat crumble... for just plain ol' cooked oats.

2. Barley - barley water is great for health, and once the grains are cooked, they make a great base for salads, or as a rice replacement. 

3. Flours - I would get some regular all purpose for making pancakes etc for mum and of course Rye flour for my crispbreads. I would probably also get Almond flour cos #ketobread.

4. Apples - did you know they keep forever in the fridge? Like forever! 

5. Cocoa powder - for drinking and baking.

6. Stock cubes / powder (aka bouillon cubes) - soups and stews are a breeze with stock cubes!

7. Any number of sauces / pastes for cooking. 

BTW - where I live, "sambal" comes in many many forms. 

And Thai chilli sauce isn't the ONLY chilli sauce. 

So I don't have a shortage of choice at all!

8. Frozen Veggies : I love all of these

9. Frozen meats and seafood - chicken, pork, mince, prawns, fish. 

10. Quinoa or Rice - the former for me, the latter for mum. Cos I don't eat rice, and she can't have quinoa. 

11. Regular supplies that I will die without, like Coffee, Milk Powder, Chips (for me), Ice Cream (for mum).

I think that's it. What would YOUR list look like? Or what are some items you couldn't do without? 

Leave a comment - or write a post - I'm curious :) 

Tuesday Things, A Poll, and a Writing Game

Some of these are going to be rude, and may offend some people. Please don't take any of it to heart. It's all meant to be for fun. And now, some off-colour humour. 

1. Good way to start the year - 

2. I'm not Mexican, but I love Mexican food! 

Does that mean I like white girls too? LOL

3. It does read that way.

4.  BIKSS posted this on his FB one day. I had to steal it :)

The next image is a top I tried on which I thought was sexy as heck. But given that I'm pretty conservative in my everyday dressing, I probably would never wear it out. And it would be a waste of money in the end. Still, what do you think? Should I have bought it? That's my bra showing, btw.  It's cut pretty low, even tho it doesn't quite look it here. Lifestyle-wise, I'm usually either at work, or at church (on the weekends). Except for the couple of times a week I eat out with BIKSS, I don't actually go anywhere, and it's not something I would wear if I'm commuting by train/bus on my own either.. see the problem? 

 I *CAN* still go back to the store and pick it up if someone manages to justify its purchase tho.  :)

And now, will you play a game with me? I thought it would be fun to write out a couple of lines without any context, and then you can either :

1) write your own short (or long) story incorporating them,

2) let me know what you imagine the scenario could be, 

or leave a brief synopsis

or 

3) tell me if you have experienced something similar or 

had a fantasy of it happening in your dynamic.

Details of the where and what have been left out intentionally for you to suit the scene to your preferred body part / toy / instrument of punishment etc. You can either leave a comment, or expand it and take it to your own blog (let me know if you do!). It will be fun to see what your kinky brains imagine this scene could be.

Here goes -

"That hurts, Daddy".. she said softly, looking up into his eyes. 

He reached over to stroke her cheek, "I know, Pumpkin, that's why I put it/them there." 

"Will you be a good girl and hold on for another minute?" he continued.

"Yes, Daddy" she replied, uncertain if it was the deep breaths that were helping, or the feel of his hand cupped under her chin in reassurance. 

It's not so bad after all, she thought, I can do this! 

That is, until she heard the 'whoosh' cut the air behind her... 

This has been written from the POV of our dynamic, so please feel free to change the scene/terms to suit your own dynamic if that is what you prefer.  Eg, Master, Sir, Mummy, Mistress... whatever you feel most comfortable with. 

ENJOY!

(Of course, if you don't feel inclined to write anything, virtual hugs will also be welcome!)

Surfing Horny And Shower Time Squats

Here's a video I sent to BIKSS on Saturday night. Because, yes, I was still feeling horny and surfing the web took me to all sorts of interesting places. 

Orgasmic Meditation. Some of you have probably heard of it. I hadn't until now. And while I don't think you should support the company that runs the workshops (I don't know if they're still operational), the idea of having someone stroke your clit for 15 mins with no pressure to climax from it sounds simply amazing. Daddy said we'd try it tonight. Hurray!

And I thought I would look up edging too, since that's what I've been doing in the shower. Argh. And for the record, if BIKSS hadn't said NO orgasms till tonight (but that I was still supposed to touch myself whenever I felt needy) I would have totally thrown this whole edging thing out the window too. I want a cum soooo badly!

Instead, I've been doing Plié squats while holding the shower head in front of my clit. Do I sound desperate? Cos I feel desperate. Don't laugh. But I'm pretty sure I've built up some muscles in my quads and glutes. You should totally try this if you want to exercise and improve muscle tone in your legs and butt, but don't want to go to the gym. So what you do is, you get in the shower, find a nice pressure setting on your shower head, hold it in one hand resting that against your inner thigh, with the water pointing at your pussy, then experiment with different positions. You could hold a Plié position, or you could move up and down. Or you could do pulses. The choice is yours. Here's an article with a gif. that shows you exactly how it's done - I don't do it on tiptoe... but you could if you're strong enough. As it is my legs are killing me. Now practise that in the shower with running water flowing over your clit. Exercise has never been so pleasurable. 

This gif. shows a complete down/up squat, not just a pulse. You could do it this way too. The opening  and closing of the labia as you bend and straighten your legs really does a number on how that jet of water feels on your clit! Almost like experimenting with different patterns / settings on a vibrator.

Inner thighs of steel, here we come!

But oh crap - now my muscles are aching so badly I'm totally gonna suffer during play time tonight. I hope BIKSS doesn't have me hold some weird position or I'm really going to be paying for all those shower-head sessions over the no-cum weekend. 

I take my hat off to every sub whose dynamic involves some sort of orgasm denial + edging combination. This whole exercise has been so effective in keeping me in that submissive mindset. I've been thinking of nothing else but sex and my pussy has been in a perpetual wet or semi-wet state this whole time, so I can appreciate how such a rule might ensure a sub is *always* ready for use.

If you're not quite ready to add this to your dynamic full time (cos I sure as hell am NOT), try it out for a couple of days before a scheduled play session, and enjoy the anticipation! 

Please leave a comment...

If you are in such a dynamic - HOW on earth do you cope with the frustration? Does it keep you in a submissive mindset or do you rebel against this imposition? 

And if you're not - do you think this is something you might want to try? Why or why not? 

Fear Or Subservience?

I have a friend, you see. Oh, but wait. First, a bit of background info. She's a couple of years older than I am. And has two kids. Both in high school - and able to fend for themselves. She works till 3 in the afternoon. Her kids don't usually get home till about 6. 

Right. So here's the thing - She often drops everything and runs off when her husband rings. Even if she's in the middle of lunch. And he wasn't supposed to come by and get her. I don't know if it's him who's decreed that she should be at his beck and call, or if it's just something she does of her own accord. 

One day we were having afternoon tea at 4. We were supposed to meet for an hour, then she was to head home (5 mins walk from where we were meeting) to get dinner prepped for the family. The husband would get off work at 6 and be home around 6.30 so she figured she had plenty of time to get everything on the table for the family meal at 7. 

At 4.15, just as we starting eating, she got a call from him. This was her side of the conversation - 

- Hi, yup, eating now. 

- Oh you're done already? Um, not yet. 

- We just got our food. Maybe half an hour? 

- OK, can. I'll meet you at the cab stand. 

Then she hung up, and I said "Do you have to go?" out of politeness more than anything. She *did* say half an hour. 

I wasn't expecting the answer she gave me. 

"Yes, I'm so so sorry.  He wasn't supposed to be done so early, but he's 5 minutes away. So I'd better start walking out now or he's gonna get grumpy. You know how they hate waiting! Let's catch up again another time, I'm so sorry." 

And of course I smiled and nodded and we hugged. She left. 

I now had an hour to kill with two barely-eaten servings of afternoon tea cakes and sandwiches in front of me, and a whole pot of Gryphon roobois tea. 

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Recently she asked if I could bake her a layer cake. She'd been wanting one for a while and I hadn't been baking cos of the termite fiasco and then the kitchen reno took a whole month ... so when it was finally done and I had time I told her I could do some baking the coming Tuesday. Want a cake?

YES! Hurray she said! I told her she could pick it up on Tuesday or Wednesday evening. 

This conversation took place on a Friday.  On Monday she texted me to ask if it was ready. Erm, No. I reminded her it was going to get baked on Tuesday, remember? 

Well, she had rehearsals on Tues and Wed, she said, so she couldn't come by on her way back from work. How about she come and collect it on Friday, she asked. 

Hmmm, I don't think the cake will last that long, I said. You'd have to fridge it, and I don't have the space to keep it in mine. What time do rehearsals end? I'm not going anywhere, and I don't mind even if you pick it up late. 

"I'll have to butter my husband up and see if he will allow us to detour to your place to pick it up after dinner. Rehearsal's till 6 then it's dinner at the in-laws' place, and home straight after."

"You could pop by after dinner, I don't mind. I'll be home anyway." 

"I'll ask him if we can swing by, but if he says no, can you keep it till Friday? The original plan was to collect it after work and bring it home before dinner. But now that I have to stay for rehearsals, I can't come over. I get off work early on Friday so I can come by and get it then."

I apologised but said no, I wasn't keeping it till Friday. 

In the end she texted me back and said he agreed to collect it on their way home after dinner. To put things in perspective, I live 10 mins away from her (by car) and my place is definitely on her way home whether she's coming from work or her in-laws' place. 

I'm sorry, but I'm not going to be inconvenienced because YOU have a crazy relationship with your husband. I told you last week that you could pick it up on Tuesday or Wednesday. If that was going to be a problem, then you should have just said so. 

Ok, maybe you only just found out about the rehearsals. Then tell me and we can always shelve it till the following week - after all, I hadn't baked it yet. 

But not being able to tell your husband that there is a cake that needs collecting (which is along the way anyway) and wanting me to keep it in my fridge till you can sneak off without inconveniencing him, and ending up inconveniencing ME in the process? That's just not on. 

These aren't isolated incidents either. We don't meet very often because as long as he's in town, dinner is out of the question. And since most of us work, lunch and tea are difficult to orchestrate. Especially if it involves more than just the 2 of us. Weekends are untouchable for her because "my husband is home, I'd better not make plans", and that leaves the few times in a year when he happens to be out of town for work. Which is when she crams in all her meet-ups. 

The thing that really annoys me is how she gets up and leaves whenever he calls. In the last year we've met up about 6 times. 3 of those times were what I call hug-and-go aka handover-the-stuff meetings, the other 3 times we tried to sit down to a meal but she only made it to the end of ONE of those meals. It's getting tiring. But I don't think she has many friends left. So I try to see her every now and then. 

Tell me. What do you ladies think about this? Am I over-reacting? Is this normal to you? Does it sound like she's afraid of him? Cos I think she is. 

Pain Threshold, Tolerance and Taking it Further

First of all, there is a difference between the terms Pain Threshold and Pain Tolerance. 

Threshold is the point at which you begin to feel pain. So the lower your threshold, the less pressure needed (eg, in a pinch) for your mind to register it as "pain". 

That is NOT what I'm talking about today. 

I'm curious to find out about pain tolerance. That is, the extent to which one can tolerate pain, and whether this limit can be raised so that over time (and with practice, I imagine) one can take MORE pain than before. 

As I was looking about on the web, I came across some articles about meditation, breathing techniques, and general health and well-being and how these can help to raise a person's pain tolerance. The breathing exercise during labour, for example, are designed to help a mother-to-be get through the pains of childbirth; athletes are encouraged to rest adequately and eat a healthy diet so as to be able to push past muscle aches as they train. Busy executives are advised to do stress-relieving activities to be better equipped to deal with the strains of regular daily life as too much stress can burden one's physical self and cause even the slightest strain to register as "pain". 

I then looked up BDSM Pain Tolerance - as this was what I was really after - and one forum stood out in particular. 

The main gist of it was that if a sub wanted to increase her (or his, I'm going to use her because I'm a she) pain tolerance, she could work on slowly building it up in her own time, by way of adding an increasing amount of pain together with a pleasurable stimulus. So, for example, putting on nipple clamps while indulging in some clitoral stimulation. The idea was to help the brain associate pain with pleasure. 

There was also some good advice about talking to one's Dom about this desire and having the Dom work on it during a session / scene. An example was the Dom could increase the duration of a spanking, or use a more painful implement (in small increments, of course) while reinforcing the fact that the sub was being a good girl at being able to take this pain for him. This feeds her desire to withstand more and more pain in order to please her Dom, and in so doing, satisfies her own need to be a "good sub". ie. The increasing pain is constantly being associated with pleasure/satisfaction. However it did state, and rightly so, that both parties should be aware of the extent of such "training" and never go beyond what the body is physically able to handle just to prove how "good" she is. 

The thing that stood out was that one Domme mentioned how she would be extremely displeased if her sub went off and did this training on his own. She insinuated that she felt it was topping from the bottom. And frowned upon it altogether. While I can see how she might feel this way, at the crux of it I think the bigger issue is communication between both parties and working out a way that both of them feel is acceptable. 

So my questions for today are as follows:

Do you think as a Dom it is more enjoyable for your sub to have a low tolerance - hence making it easier to get to that floaty place caused by the release of endorphins we call subspace? 

Or do u prefer one who can take a fair amount of pain so you can really up the game during spankings and play with different implements before your bottom bottoms out?

If your sub wanted to increase pain tolerance, would you discourage her from going at it on her own and only work on it together? Or let her go off and inflict pain on herself on her own time ?

Subs (and bottoms) - Is increasing pain tolerance something you have thought about or worked on? And if you have made a conscious decision to do so, did you do it on your own or as part of a joint effort between you and your Dom? 

If you have thought about it but have not worked on it in any active way, is there something preventing you from approaching your Dom with this idea or have you done so without much consequence/result? 

If you would like to leave any other related comments that don't fall into any of the categories of the questions I've asked, please DO feel free to do so. I'm curious as to what you all think about this topic in general, so all comments are welcome!

P.S. I'm a Capricorn... I wonder if I have a naturally high tolerance for pain as this poster suggests... Are you on this list?

Pre Birthday Present

We got up bright and early and met for breakfast... then went to a Tech fair near our place... 

He needed a new hard disk and since his birthday is coming up, I said I'd get him one as part of his present!

It was actually such a good deal that I got one for myself too.

Hey, your birthday present shopping is turning out to be quite lucrative for me. Your massage is part of a couples package; this hard disk deal is almost 2-for-1, it'd be silly not to buy one for myself.

(I wonder what other things I'll be getting as part of BIKSS' birthday present. *Grin*)

Wanna go home and have sex?

That was loud...

Hee,hee, oops. It's ok. Some fella here's going to have a fun story to tell someone back home about what he overheard at work today.

And we did. We went home, I had an hour and a bit before I started work... he spanked me, then I gave Roger some seeing to....

But the man decided that it wasn't enough, so he stood up, instructed me to kneel on the floor and suck him off, then he placed my hands behind me, held me by my hair and fucked my face.

After half a minute he reached for the toys. Hands higher up. I moved my arms as much as I could farther up my back, and he began to smack my bottom as I sucked on him. 

I was so lost in the moment that when he stopped spanking me and gave me permission to use my hands to bring him to orgasm, it didn't register till a good 15 seconds later. Use your hands, he had said, but as I wasn't quite sure those were his exact words, after some time I eventually moved one hand, and dared to employ the other only when it was clear I didn't hear him wrong.

We did fuck a little later... and Roger was more than happy to pound into me a fair bit without  fear of cumming again too soon... and BIKSS let me scream and yell and holler into a pillow as much as I had the energy to. I LIKE this new thing that we're trying.

After a quick conversation and some more cuddles, he got ready to go... but not before suggesting that I put this particular question on my blog:

Dear ladies,

What is the likelihood of you going shopping (no matter how many stores you go to, one mall, one shop, a whole day's walking about, whatever..) and NOT actually buying anything?

It's still shopping, even if it's a hardware store, right?

I'm not exactly sure what point he's trying to make... but we did talk about how he thinks women meander too much when we shop, and so he doesn't enjoy "shopping" with members of the fairer sex. He maintains guys do NOT meander when they shop. However when I pointed out that we were wandering the hall of the Tech fair quite a lot and that constitutes meandering/shopping, he was adamant that poking around in Tech and IT, hardware, and videogame stores does NOT count as shopping.

I am inclined to disagree. Cos when I go into an IT warehouse, I'm wont to meander as much as when I'm in a shoe factory outlet! 

What do you reckon? Doesn't roaming around DIY / IT / Videogame shops count as "shopping" too?

[Edit: I know what that question for the ladies was all about now. His point is that men don't shop. And meandering around tech/blah/blah stores doesn't count as shopping cos there's no BUYING, just looking and research and getting ideas - most of the time - because he's convinced women always buy something when they shop. And so if I could garner enough names on the Yes-We-Shop-Without-Buying list then he'd accept that NOT BUYING still counts as shopping. Phew!]

Poll Results - Mobile vs Web

I asked if you preferred to have the Mobile site activated or go straight to the Web Version when reading blogs on your phone / handheld device. Here are your votes:

Mobile Site - 4

Web Version - 10

So, I apologise to those who prefer reading the mobile site, but it looks like I'm gonna leave the web version on my blog. Thank you for playing :)

Poll Results - 3 August

I asked how many of your were spanked as a child. Because I wasn't. And I turned out to be a spanko - my reason being perhaps I craved the physical punishment / sensation so that I could let go of the guilt, or know that I was forgiven. That's the theory I read everywhere, anyway. 

So in an attempt to find out if other spankos out there were like me, I asked the question. 

It turns out there's no pattern, one way or the other. 

Out of 24 of you,
15 of you said YES you were spanked as a child, and
9 of you, like me, said NO. 

Go figure. Thanks for answering the poll question peeps. I'll set up a new one soon.

Poll Results - 29 July

To the question "What is your favourite implement?" 41 of you answered. Here is the breakdown"

(Conina, I stole a flogger pic from your etsy store and linked it here)

His Hand   28

Flogger    6

Cane          5

   Paddle       11






Spoon        0

Crop          4

Poll Results - 4th of July

In a bid to find out if there were others out there like me who were practising OUR kind of relationship outside of marriage, I set up a poll some time back.

Here are the results:

43   of you said you were married
4     of you said you were both single / dating
11   of you said either one or both of you were already married but having a TTWD outside of marriage
6     of you said you were in a long distance relationshp

Thank you for voting!

Come back and vote on the new poll soon!