Old Friends and New

As I was reading through some of my old posts and comments, reminiscing, I suppose, I came across a comment that June (of Ward & June) left one one of my posts, Secretes of the Sub Sisterhood mentioning that she had added the link to her favourite posts page on her own blog. 

If you've read there before you might have seen it already. But for some reason I only saw it for the first time today. 

So if you're interested in what some of their favourite posts were around blogland, have a look at THIS PAGE which contains a short description and links to the actual posts. Mind you this was a long time ago, in blogland terms anyway, so some of the links might not take you anywhere at all. But it's worth checking out, especially if you're new to DD / Ds / TTWD etc. 

And I just wanted to take the time to say how much I appreciate my early blogging friends, Conina, Kitty, Faerie, who were the first few to reach out and say "you're not alone and you're not weird"... 

Also, Emen, Bas, Jake, Spanky (and the CWS members) , Del Fonte, Geekie Kitty, Master's Piece, Aisha, Renee Rose, SNP, Ami, Dragon's Rose, and slightly more recently, Lil, Pygar & Abby (I do miss you). 

I'm sure there are more but it would take too long to go thru all my comments and list them all! Because yes, I have forgotten some of the names, but I will never forget that they all (like you) made me feel welcome at a time when I really needed to find some people who were like me. They uplifted, supported, encouraged, challenged, and celebrated me and each other. And I am so glad that the same spirit continues on in blogland today, even tho' individual bloggers may come and go. 

(Some of you are still here  - or I've recently found you again *looks at Bleue and DV* - so I shan't add you to that list! LOL)

Thank you for being my people!

My mood pic today ~

Throwback to a BIKSS Story (part 2)

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Throwback to a BIKSS Story

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Collar - KOTW

In the beginning we had a collar. Not one I wore all the time. Just during playtime. It was blue.

This is a portion of the post that accompanied this picture:

Yes it is from a pet shop. I like having something around my neck that doesn't feel like a noose - ie, cannot be tightened. A regular buckled one would require something for him to hold on to, like a leash - which I'm not comfortable with at the moment. And I think BIKSS isn't the biggest fan either - even it were only a short one.

This one slips easily over my head and the half choke means he has something to grab on to while we're, you know... doing the deed. Heh. And doesn't require a lot of time to get in place.

When I cleared out the toy cupboard after the little mess that we encountered early on, I chucked it out. 

We've never replaced it. We never had to. 

He has given me a necklace too - 

When he put it around my neck he said :

"Something vanilla that you can wear out that reminds you of me."

Which I suppose works a little bit like a collar. A reminder.


[Edit: in 2016 September BIKSS had to spend some time in Germany for work. Aside from a unicorn stuffie and a couple of kinky toys he got me (which I knew about prior to his return), he also got me this choker which I adore.

It's not meant to be a collar signifying anything, but as I mentioned in a comment to this post, anytime I wear something around my neck that was a gift from BIKSS, it reminds me of our dynamic.]

These days he just uses his hand. Or his words. But I DO like his hand. 

I was facing down. Roger was facing up. Into my mouth. Nuff said.

TBT - CWS 6 - Pre Blowjob Thoughts According to BIKSS

Last week I put up the Pre-Blowjob Thoughts Challenge. There was a part two - this was BIKSS' point of view. Enjoy.

CWS Challenge #2 - HIS point of view

Following the positive response to BIKSS' recent posts, I asked if he would do me the honour of writing 55 words about what happens in his brain as I'm about to give him a blowjob. Here is his response to Spanky's CWS Challenge.

Ladies and Gentleman, Subs and Doms, I give you : 

55 words before you know your cock is going to be sucked - A Dom's Perspective

Watching me, you smile as you unzip me and release my cock from its cloth prison. Holding him firmly, you engulf him in your warm mouth, your eyes never leaving mine, not even for an instant.

“Sweet dreams are made of these,” was a song but I bet this wasn’t what they had in mind. 

TBT - CWS 5 - Pre Blowjob Thoughts

I haven't done a TBT CWS post in a while, so here's one of our early challenges.

Please feel free to write your own response to this Spanky challenge - just let me know in the comments if you do so I can come round and visit. 

I present ~ The Pre Blowjob Thought Challenge 

CWS Challenge #2

"Write 55 words on the moment before you know you will be sucking a cock" was the challenge issued by Spanky to the CWS network. I'm late coming to the party... but here goes:

The Pre-Blowjob Pep Talk

Will he let me take it in?
Almost I think. Now? Or later?

How should I pleasure him?
With gusto and fervour?
Or gently, teasing?

Mmm I think a feather-light touch to start
But please make it last.
You always get carried away
And get down to it too fast.

Oh, whatever. Here it comes!

(and that, if you count hyphenated words as 1, was exactly 55 words not including the title.)

TBT- CWS 4

Well then, I missed last week's TBT it appears. This week I've managed to schedule the post in advance. Here's an Ode to Cock from 6 years ago. It was meant to be funny and tongue/cock in cheek, so don't take it too seriously! 

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Ode to Cock - a CWS special

It's the girth - not the length
It's the power and the strength
It invades and impales

It is veiny, but it is smooth
It likes tongue, not so much tooth
And some sucking never fails

It is hard, and soft as well
When it's in me, what the hell!
Pump me harder, that's a boy!

Out again, it seeks my mouth
Head pushed into crotch, down south
Use me, fuck me, I'm your toy

Back of throat, deep you thrust
Keep it down, do this I must
Looking up I see your gaze

Eyes that speak of lust anew
Stare at me even while you spew
You cum, and we, together, laze.

TBT - CWS 3

Here are this week's excerpts - enjoy :)

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...I squat (yes, not terribly glamourous but it's the perfect height for me to get at Roger) and put his cock in my mouth. Rough. Urgent. Demanding. (That's me, by the way, not him!) Bikss has his hands against the wardrobe for balance, and leverage, as he pumps into my face. I look up at him often; he watches me worship his cock, and I'm convinced the view from above does something for him, if his thrusts are anything to go by. 

He pushes deep into my throat and I turn my squat into a kneel, for better stability, as he pumps right in and cums directly down the back of my throat. At the end of this I'm tearing and my nose is all stuffy from the gagging. Strangely my man never realises he's choking me. Not until I'm wiping my face with a towel. In all innocence he asks, "Sweaty?"  "No, gag reflex. Tears and snot, hun."

I swear I can almost see the amusement on his face as he says, "Oh, did I make you gag?"

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...His erection was bumping up against my thigh, insistently, and I reached down to hold it in my hand. I mumbled a complaint about having to navigate through his shorts and briefs and he responded by lifting them upwards and to the side to expose his eager cock from below. Skin met skin and we moaned at the same time from the thrill of making contact. With my hand wrapped around his shaft I began to stroke his length. I made to kneel down and take him in my mouth, but he stopped me with a light but firm touch. 

The windows are open, you sure you wanna do this?

Can I? Will anyone see?

via fcvadom

After a brief pause he nodded his consent. I bent at the knees and began a smooth descent until my mouth was the same level as his crotch. Then I shifted one leg into a kneel and was in a sort of prolonged genuflection as I worshipped his rapidly hardening cock. Looking straight up at him, I pulled him all the way into my throat, the angle of my head from keeping my eyes locked onto his making it less uncomfortable to do so (as compared with my experiences in the past). My lips were open to allow my tongue to reach out and caress the remainder of his cock that couldn't fit into my mouth. I teased his sac with my fingers and felt him give a little shudder. I brought my tongue back in and closed my lips around him now, manipulating whatever length of him I could take in my mouth with swirling tongue and tightening lips. I sucked, then released, I stroked his shaft with my closed hand in accompaniment to the movements of my mouth. He held me by the back of my head and I can't remember if he fucked my mouth with his hips or rocked my head back and forth over his cock, but I was rewarded for my service with a hot load of cum deposited right at the back of my tongue, oozing down my throat even as he continued to ejaculate.