Face Slapping - KOTW

I'd never thought about participating in Kink of the Week but since Mrs Fever put it in a comment, I thought I might dip a toe in. 

It was never something we thought we would do. Whenever we had seen it in videos it had always looked scary and humiliating, and since humiliation was never really our kink per se, well, we thought, it wasn't for us. 

Until I came across this ONE particular clip where after being slapped the sub had a totally serene expression come over her face, and she turned back immediately to look up adoringly at her Dom. 

And that got me hot and bothered in all sorts of ways. It's a look I myself wear when I am in little girl mode and looking up at Daddy. 

We talked about it and well, here's a little snippet taken from my post the first time it happened - 

Daddy held my face in his hands while talking and kissing. And he tentatively placed a soft pat on my cheek. A light one. And I said "We've talked about how that makes me feel."  Which we had. Not in the sense that we wanted to try it. Just about how watching it or reading about it made us feel. And it made me feel good. I can't quite remember what his reaction to it was at the time.

He said he remembered. And I could feel that Roger was definitely enjoying it. He confirmed it verbally too. I added that he wasn't the only one who was getting hot and bothered. Cos my hooha was definitely interested in what was going on.

So another slap. Then a couple more in succession. Taps more than full on slaps. Rapid, shallow, unheavy taps on both sides of my face.

This went on for a little while before he began fucking and choking, and more tapping.

"I'm just worried about leaving a mark."

"Don't leave a mark."

That was all the conversation we had during the encounter.

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This was taken from an early encounter too - maybe the 3rd or 4th time... 

There was some spanking, and a blowjob (of course) during which he slapped my face a little bit, but also a little more than before. This isn't part of our usual repertoire altho' we have tried it a few times. I enjoyed it... but Roger REALLY enjoyed it. 

It's strange how he manages to do so with such affection. Belonging. Cherished. These are the words I would use to describe how I feel when he's shoving my face into his crotch and making me gag on his cock, while smacking my cheek at the same time with the other hand. Hashtag warped. But I'm not complaining. And in between slaps he affectionately pinches the bridge of my nose in that playful you're-so-cute way, and strokes the space between my eyebrows with the back of an index finger. Cock still in mouth. Eyes looking up at him.

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It seems that face slapping for us is a sign of belonging, rather than to elicit humiliation. And I'm perfectly happy about that. 

Just this morning, in the car, we spoke about it as I mentioned that I had been looking at impact play infographics and one did caution that if a person were to engage in face-slapping, the other side of the face should always be supported. 

"But you're talking about full-force slaps across the face, in that case, not like the ones we do," he says. 

"Hm, that's true, ours are really very light taps compared to some of the scenes we see in the videos," I reply. 

"And if I ever whacked you across the face like that you'd kick me out of your house!" he laughs. 

I pause. 

"Um, actually, maybe not." I continue in a really quiet voice, "She's (pointing between my legs) getting wet thinking about it... " *insert sheepish smile here*.