The Definitions

(Updated version : AUG 2019)

It's time I put up a page explaining who and what all the names refer to I suppose. I'll add to this as the need arises.

Arrangement

That's what I call our, erm, arrangement. Our TTWD doesn't come with a formal contract, and we didn't even have a name for it at the beginning. We used the word Arrangement when we started and just carried on. I suppose you could say it's a substitute for "rules". Now He's Daddy and I'm his little (lidl - is what he calls me - like the store in Germany).

Bambu
What I call the Bamboo Massager BIKSS uses as an implement on my behind
(retired)






*New Addition*
The Backscratcher  -- The post that accompanies its use can be found HERE

  

BIKSS 

Bloke I'm Kinda Sorta Seeing aka my current person whom I'm involved in an illicit affair with

Captain Silver

Acquired Sept 2012 - my no nonsense reliable replacement vibe after retiring ol' Lilac

(retired)



Christmas Paddle 

A traditional rice-stirrer that BIKSS worked on himself which you can read about HERE - it was a gift to me in 2012.

Crop
A lovely pink thing Daddy bought me for Christmas in 2017.


CWS
The Cock Worshipping Subs network created by Spanky
(retired.. at least the blog is)




DD2 (Jan 2018)

A double penetration vibrating toy that is a favourite of mine when I'm feeling up to some bum action. Coupled with the Purple Pieman, it gave me the first of what I hope will be many explosive orgasms!

DIY Slappers
These were made many moons ago... we don't use them very often, but they're handy for vacations.

The Fan

The Fingers

The Twins

Favourite Flogger (June 2018)

'Nuff said.

Gregor (Jan 2018)

I have no idea what possessed me. I thought it might be fun to have a vibrating dildo. I did NOT know it was going to turn out to be so huge. It's the most intimidating toy I've ever known.

Mini-Wanda (Jan 2018)

Acquired after Wanda died. Bought off the web, this one was smaller than I expected, but the vibrations are seriously strong. (There's something wrong with the on/off button so it has been retired.)

ol' Lilac (picture not available)
My trusty lilac-coloured vibrator
(retired)



Purple Pieman (Jan 2018)

I don't pretend to have any logic when it comes to naming my toys. They just pop into my head. Some make sense, some are clever, some aren't. It's just the way it is.

Rubber Spanker

This one hurts like anything - BIKSS got this at a night market in one of the places he visited on holiday. You can read more about that in this post.

Roger

BIKSS's cock. Yes he has a name. We have conversations sans BIKSS sometimes. And yes, we get along like a house on fire.

Survey

A questionnaire BIKSS had me fill up when we were just friends (back in 2007) so as to gain a deeper knowledge of my sexual proclivities.

The Viking - BIKSS' prostate massager with cock ring. It was a gift that was meant for Christmas but only arrived in Jan 2018. Still, we had a good bit of fun with it. He named it so because he feels "ravaged" by it.

Wanda

A pink Caresse Legend by Toy Joy that BIKSS bought me when he was on a work trip overseas. It was good while it lasted but has since given up the ghost. I am sad.

(retired)




Yellow Fellow (which BiKSS has taken to calling Yellow Bird)
Cupid Love's Yellow Honey vibrator
(retired)




Some of our other spanking toys can be found HERE.

I've decided to include a pic of our jewelled plug here as well. The post accompanying its purchase is HERE and I wrote about the first time we used it HERE.

I decided to take stock of our spanking implements as well - so here they are, canes, floggers and everything else (including some of the ones already named above).

The Aubergine

This is our latest addition - it was a complimentary toy given us by Paloqueth in exchange for a review of the product (which can be found here).

  


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And some background about Me. Not alot. But a bit ~

• I work part time - 4 hours in the mornings on Mon to Fri.
• On Sundays and 3 weekday afternoons I teach.
• I've begun baking my layer cakes for sale again.
• I love swimming and try to get to a pool at least once a week altho the one in my neighbourhood has closed so it's a chore having to travel to get to the next nearest one.
• Over the last 4 years (Since 2015) I've stopped eating carbs (except french fries, potato chips and the occasional chocolate cake!) and have been exercising regularly by way of walks.
• I've gone from the heaviest I've been as an adult, to the lightest I've been as an adult.             That's 12 kgs. TYVM.

I used to have a list of things
... that I do in this space. But it began to look a little contrived.
In general, I do what I can to make him happy, raise him up, and fill his life with beauty.
That includes being, looking, and feeling good for both our benefits.

A little over a year after we got involved, we shifted naturally into a more Daddy Dom / little girl dynamic - here's the link to the post where we embark on our new adventure, and more links (in it) to go to for definitions and more on this side of D/s.

Read our story HERE if you haven't already. And there's also a summary post that I did HERE for LOL day 2017.
And if you want to know about our spanking life, try reading THIS post or THAT one.
And here's an update on being spanked to tears.
(In fact, just click on the 'spanking' tag and you'll be set!)

If you click on Blog Award you'll learn more about me. I try to play along and put up stuff about myself, which is something these awards require you to do... but it's SO HARD to pick other blogs to nominate that I've decided never again to do that part of the exercise cos I feel so awful leaving people out!

If you want to chat about anything, feel free to drop me an email.