He Came Thru

I will be honest. After last week I was seriously stressing out. Maybe that's what caused me to toss and turn all of Saturday night. I had 2.5 hours' sleep before having to go to work for my longest day of the week. 

Still, this is a story about my birthday. Not about all the angst before. Hm... it'll be a long one, so maybe I should just do it in point form...

The Before

~ I painted my nails and coloured my (greying) hair.

~ Suggested eating nearby then when I asked him his original plan he said he already had somewhere in mind

(10 points)

~ So we went to his plan.

~ Hinted at what to get me as a gift if he hadn't already sorted that out. Turns out he had. (10 points)

~ Planned outfit with Fiona via text (so girly right???)

The Dinner

~ He enquired before-hand (5 points) and they said no reservations were necessary.

~ He rang all day today to make one just in case it got crowded at dinnertime. (5 points)

~ No one picking up all day. He got to the restaurant early to check - before meeting me. (10 points)

~ They were closed for a company D&D. Thwarted! 

~ "Where are you now little girl?" (Made me swoon... almost! Made me wet - definitely!) (50 points)

~ He came to find me and explained that we had to eat elsewhere. Still Japanese food though - my favourite.

~ The food was scrumptious , the company was spectacular, the conversation was sparkling. (30 points)

~ He decided we weren't taking the train and spending all that time commuting. So into a cab we went. 

~ He didn't take the car today so he could stay out later than he usually does on Mondays. (20 points)

The Play Date

~ He sorted out the ginger (10 points)

~ I was cuffed (10 points)

~ My birthday spanking went on forever! And it was more ouch-y than normal too! (20 points)

~ And then the figging. Oh My Good Ness. It wasn't hot. It was more like COLD - like menthol - minty. Hahaha that's how I'd describe it anyway. He left it in there and spanked and caned and spatula'ed and belted and porto-spanko'ed and Christmas paddled me. Then he fucked my ass with it. I was screaming, moaning; there were moments I was totally out of it - my body just relaxed and everything went slack. I was so afraid of clenching that my butthole was paralysed in an open position! He said dirty things to me. Then he whispered into my ear how I was to cum for him later. (Do you hear me? Yes or no? Um, can you repeat that? I wasn't listening...) Then I'd get to be fucked. I whimpered and groaned and made them whiny sobbing noises but without any tears. I sat back, then I rocked forward, I had no where to escape, but I didn't really want to either. When he finally announced he was done and pulled it out, I was relieved and a little bit sorry it had to end. But I came for him, "like the good slut (I am)" and he held me and cuddled me till the room came back into focus. "You promised one more thing..." I begged... "That you'd get to be fucked? Get on your back." (250 points)

~ He shaved everything off - for my birthday! (20 points)

~ More sex... um, and then some cock-worship, and then more fucking... then more sucking on Roger... You get the picture. (30 points)

The After (a.k.a.Post-Coital Cuddles)

~ We practised using words to convey how he feels. (50 points)

~ "When I'm not with you I check Whatsapp to see if you've come online to look for me" (40 points)

(See Master? I did NOT know that!)

~ He thinks of me as His Girl. (Fondles *claps* like a mad woman)

~ "I really like how you service me when I'm with you" - he meant how I dote on him. We have a word for it in Malay - Sayang. As a verb it kinda means "the act of showing affection and love" (10 points) - This was after some misses in the beginning including "I really like how your boobs look naked" (!...?) 

~ "When I'm not with you I wonder what you're doing now... and now... and now..." 

Me: Wow. You think about me a lot huh?

Him: Uh huh - almost all the time. Well, except when I'm very busy. (30 points)

(I wouldn't have guessed!)

~ We opened my present. From a very reputable jeweler. It's a 22K gold pendant. Remember the dolphins? Same jeweler. "Oh, but I already have a pendant that you gave me and I don't have any more necks!" Well my solution is that I wear them all together - he insists I don't have to, but I WANT to. Besides, I'm in the business of teaching music - I'm allowed to be artsy and bohemian and wear everything at once. (40 points)

~ I felt so special knowing this man sucked at buying gifts (his words not mine) and went and thought and stressed and floundered and got me one anyway. 

~ Some of his other options: and why they got vetoed-

1) Earrings (I'm an earring slut) : What if you already had one which is similar? Or didn't like the colour? Or had nothing to match it with? 

2) Lipstick (I mentioned wanting to vamp it up earlier this year) : Do you know how many shades of red there are? I'd pick red cos it'll pretty you up and look good on Roger :) BUT what if you didn't like it, or already HAD it?

3) Lingerie (I assume for his viewing pleasure) : I don't know what size you are... 

~ I told him that from now on I'll either tell him what a want... or I'll give him a list. We talked through some of the possibilities and came to one conclusion - he shops like a gay man. Metro-sexual is my Dom. 

~ We had a conversation about MONEY. I hate talking about things that involve money. It often gets awkward. This one didn't. (50 points)

~ He mentioned stealing away together for a real vacation (not as an aside during a work trip) in Feb and I was checking to find out what the financial arrangements would look like. I didn't want him to spend too much and I said I could sort out my plane ticket. He offered to subsidise that, but I said if he could just sort out the room I would be good to go. He stated very plainly that he'd already planned to cover the hotel. Aaaaand he'd been checking the travel websites to keep an eye on ticket prices cos we'll be travelling during a high season and prices might go up. (100 points) 

~It made me smile to know he'd been constantly keeping track of our vacation! OUR vacation!) 

And there you have it. My perfect evening birthday evening with BIKSS.