Tuesday Toon #50

It's Tuesday again! Here you go - some aren't quite pics in the strictest sense, but they're still funny :) As always, let me know which one(s) you like!

#1 - Coming Out

 #2 - The Clothes Maketh The Gator

 #3 - Noodling About

#4 - This is why BIKSS comes over on Mondays :)

#5 - Dough you wanna?

#6 - ... especially with ageing peepers....

Yay for Saturday!

Normally we do our own things on the weekend but last Sat we managed a dinner / soccer-watching date! 

We ate some fish tacos (I think I'm headed towards a preo-pescatarian diet) and a chicken salad (I picked out the chicken and the croutons) and then midway through the game splurged on a waffle with ice cream!

Well, if I'm going to be using up my calorie quota, I'm going to make sure it's on stuff that I love! 

Sadly, the waffle wasn't awesome. But it was good enough. 

After that it was home again home again jiggity jig. For some playtime! Yay! 

It's a different feeling when we get to play on Saturday. There's a lot less stress as not only is the house empty, there's no worry about getting to bed early because the next day is a work day. So we had the luxury of a nice hand spanking, some fingering, lots of sucking on Roger and um, the stuff that usually follows after  :) 

And that's with an injured knee too! 

Round two was less stressful on his legs, as we got into a different position with BIKSS lying on his side. Exactly like this - complete with his head propped up on his bent arm LOL. 

Which also left a lot of space for some hot hot hot face slapping. Yep. Saturday night fun definitely gets a thumbs-up from me! 

FFF 2.0 - 17

I'm convinced there's something the matter with my tracker / fone syncing. For some reason Wed and Thur only registered 2k plus steps each. That's virtually impossible cos even without doing anything out of the ordinary, I usually hit 3/3.5k by the time I'm back from work at 1pm. And my routine is pretty much the same every morning - at least for the first 6 hours of the day as long as it's a work day. 

Anyway, here are the numbers - 

Average - 7,686 (this is obviously wrong!)

Highest  - 13,148 on Sat

No of 10k days - 3

I also managed a 500m (10-lap) swim on Tuesday so that's making me happy. The shoulder isn't popping as much as it did at one point, so I'm going to start swimming properly again - instead of just doing the token laps when I'm at the pool.

Here's Roz with her update:

I managed to do my exercises 6/7 days this last week, and that includes over Easter lol. I continued with the stairs at work also.

And Olivia's update can be found HERE.

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Things I'm supposed to be reading up on this week -

Sympathetic vs Parasympathetic Responses.

aka - Autonomic Nervous System

Here are a series of articles that I found quite easy to read and understand, and have useful practical advice!

1 - Using exercise to balance the nervous system

2 - Using diet to balance the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems

3- Lifestyle changes to balance the SNS and PSNS

So getting angry, for example, according to my boss, is a sympathetic response. Hah. So the next time someone tells me I'm cold and heartless I shall ask them if I get worked up easily... and if they say YES (which they probably will) then that will be proof that I'm extremely SYMPATHETIC! LOL.

Also, this is why I need my monthly massages. Cos I'm probably SNS-Domninant.

Enjoy!

Biscuits and Buns and a Shopping Trip

Hurray. I've managed to get my scale to read 56-point-something kgs again. For a while there it was hovering around the 58-59 zone! Hrmph.

How? Salad. And portion control. 

And then yesterday it all went to hell cos BIKSS drove me to a wonderful store across the border where I bought a ton of pastries. The place is famous for its "fragrant biscuits" (it's a literal translation)  - looks like this:

The wiki description reads : 

"Heong Peng (Chinese: 香餅; Pe̍h-ōe-jī: hiong-piánn; Heong Peah in Hokkien) means fragrant pastries in English. These pastries, which resemble slightly flattened balls, contain a sweet sticky filling made from malt and shallots, which is covered by a flaky baked crust and garnished with sesame seeds on the surface." 

And the best part about this particular shop is that they've developed a MOCHA flavoured version!! It's totally delish! Everyone who's tried it agrees.

I am also in love with their "shao bao". OK so what it is, is instead of traditional steamed pork (char siew) buns that you might recognise from dim sum restaurants - 

the ones I like are baked instead - with the same juicy char siew (barbecued pork) filling inside :

I've eaten one for breakfast almost everyday for the last 2 weeks (since BIKSS last went and procured two boxes for me...) and now that my existing stash is almost finished, I'm happy to announce I have 9 more - which will last me about another 2 weeks (since I don't have breakfast on the weekend).

It was almost time for an early dinner, but not before I checked out the factory outlet store - and ended up with a cute little number that looks something like this - comfy and decent enough for work but will also take me from day to night if I needed to head straight to the theatre or a nice restaurant :

Of course since we were in our favourite city-across-the-border, we just *had* to have dinner at our regular Japanese place, and this time, we tried a new teapot soup thing. 

It's a light miso-flavoured clear soup, and the lemon is for squeezing over the seafood and into the teapot! Yes, lemon. In soup. It was strange and interesting, and not unpleasant in the least. 

Can you see the "fish" at the bottom of the tiny bowls/cups? So cute!

The teapot stand comes with a tealight candle to keep the soup warm throughout the meal.

We also had tempura squid.

Miso stir fried brinjals.

Beef hotplate with onions, spring onion and beansprouts.

And for dessert - a fruit salad.

As always, I had a tummyache after eating there. I think it's cos I always end up eating way more than my usual portion. 

The whole trip was sponsored by Daddy - cos he refused to let me pay him back for the food that I had bought. I didn't feel it was right at first, cos it's not all for me. I mean, most of it was for giving away. But he said it was fine, cos the goodwill is intended for me (even if the food didn't all end up in my tummy). 

That made me smile.. cos no one else has ever done something like this for me :) 

Tuesday Toon #49

Here you go. Thanks to BIKSS as always.

#1 - KNOCK KNOCK who's there? 

NOT something you want happening to you

#2 - Nesting

#3 - The Animals Went in 2 by 2

#4 - OH Captain, my Captain

#5 - Ain't That The Trooth

#6 - (Hahahaha I have no title for this one)

#7 - Blood-rush

#8 - Modern Easter

#9 - Corrective Lens

#10 - Freudian Sips

Let me know which one was your favourite!

FFF2.0 - 16 The Wellness Edition

For some reason my tracker didn't want to track what I did the Friday before, so the numbers are a bit off. Still, here they are.

Average steps : 8839
Highest no : 17,057
10k days : 4

Olivia's great beach-y week can be found here. 

Here's Roz's Update: 

It's been a busy week and unfortunately I haven't had much time for exercises. From last Saturday to Friday I only managed 2 days. I have done some exercises over the last couple of days though which will be in next week's report and I should hopefully be back on track now.

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And the toy company is sending over this sonic sucking vibrator. 

 

The text that accompanies it reads: 

Clitoral Sucking Vibrator with Sonic Technology 7 Vibration Modes for Powerful No-Contact Stimulation, PALOQUETH Women's Waterproof Nipples Suction Stimulator, Quiet Rechargeable

I'm excited to get it and try it out. Will update :)

Also, I'm glad to announce that the search for a new masseuse is over (for now). I went to a traditional Chinese therapy place on the recommendation of a friend's mum. But it turns out while they're probably great for spot treatments, it's not quite what I was looking for. My previous masseuse went back to her home town and I've been massage-less for about half a year. The aches and general muscle soreness have reached a point where even my boss is telling me to hurry up and go find a new one to knead the knots away. (I've asked him about a bunch of weird aches / pains over the last few months, and each time the question has been the same - is it a muscle thing or a more serious thing - like tendons, nerves, or something else I need to worry about? And each time the answer has been - your muscles are spasming - get a massage. He asked why I didn't just let my masseuse know to work on the problem areas, and that's when I told him she left town last August. He aaah-ed like it finally made a lot of sense why I've been having so many aches.)

So anyway I tried out another spa place on Good Friday - what better way to distract myself from all the food in the fridge right? - and the lady who attended to me turned out to be really quite decent. She's not spectacular in any way I can pinpoint, but it was comfortable and relaxing enough. We got along fine, she speaks English (unlike a lot of the ones we get in this town) and the price is very competitive. They let me bring in my own massage oil too which was nice - unlike some places that insist you buy their essential oils if you want to add an aromatherapy element to your session. 

For now, I intend to go back to her the next time I need a massage. And I'm hoping it will be a long time more before I have to go masseuse hunting again. 

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Finally, for those of you who celebrate, here's wishing you a Happy Easter ~ from BIKSS and me :)

oh PS, BIKSS got me easter eggs! Nom Nom Nom!

Review ?

I got an email. From a webstore that sells toys.

It's called Paloqueth. I've never heard of it. But they wrote to ask if I would do some reviews.

I think you can sign up to be a reviewer, an influencer... or whatever. But since they came looking for me, I thought I might give it a go.

This is kinda exciting. It's time to earn that Sex Blogger title! LOL

So stay tuned. Let's see where this takes me. :)

FFF 2.0 - 15 Warts And More Doctors

This week I went to see another doctor (derma) at my place of work. Not the one (my boss) I usually work with. I have skin warts. One on my right cheek and one on my collarbone. They will get lasered off at some point. I just need to wait for them to schedule it and let me know. According to this link there are 3 types of skin warts. I've now earned the right to say I've had them all. I got my plantar warts cauterised when I was in my mid 20s. I've had genital warts before, at the time I began this blog about 7 years ago. And now it's 3 for 3. I also have new moles developing. Signs of ageing, she says. Pfft.

In other news - I had the worst cramps yesterday. And I got my period. Again. after 20 days. This is insane. 

So I shall make some time next Monday to see our resident O & G (who's only there once a week!) to get her opinion on this whole suspected perimenopause situation. But it shall have to be AFTER I take mum to her physiotherapy session at 2. 

I wish I didn't have to see so many different doctors for different things. Couldn't they all be rolled into one...

I will be glad when the day is over and I can relax with BIKSS - we're watching a play my cousin is acting in! I can't wait! 

Meanwhile, my steps this week :

Average: 9073
No of >10k days : 2
Highest no in a day :13,405

Roz's Update:

I have done my exercises 5/7 days, however, the eating hasn't been as good with afternoon teas and we have a family b'day dinner out tonight :)

and Olivia's scale has its own theme song. Visit her here.

This week I learnt about Cutaneous Nerves and Dermatomes. I have an irritating electrical current-like sensation zinging thru the front of my thigh. The boss says it's nothing to worry about. So I'm all good. It's just rather annoying at times.

But hey, if it didn't happen to me, I'd never have read about it.

Happy weekend! And Happy Stepping!

Nothing's Going On. That's Good.

My life this week - took mum to the doctor. Who finally could give her a satisfactory answer regarding the lumps she discovered at her tummy area. It's nothing. Just granulomas under an old scar line from gallstone removal surgery she had 30 years ago. Doc says it's probably been there forever, without her knowing, and only seemed to appear recently as she has been losing weight and muscle mass in the last few years. 

She is happy with this explanation. And has been advised to take meal supplements such as Ensure and other such drinks WITH her meals and not INSTEAD of her meals (she tends to have a weak appetite). 

My asshat sibling's ex-girlfriend, who is a close family friend of the rest of the family (and not his, because his wife forbids any contact and thinks we're trying to make her jealous by remaining friends with said ex! HA!) currently leads the sales team of a local firm dealing in medical / hospital / clinic supplies. I checked in with her this morning to find out if I could place orders for the above-mentioned supplementary drinks, and she said yes! And they carry all 3 of the ones the parents are currently taking! 

Dad's on Ensure, and mum's on Glucerna (for diabetics) and Nepro (for renal patients). I've put in an order for 3 cartons of stuff. They can deliver directly to the mother's house. Hurray. This means I don't have to lug bottles of stuff back home from the pharmacy no more. 

This was totally us!

After the medical appt yesterday mum was so relieved she wanted to go shopping. And I hadn't seen her in such a relaxed mood in a long time. Aside from the reassurance that she has nothing to worry about, there was also the knowledge, I think, that the father was safe and being taken care of while we were out that afternoon. 

She picked up two pairs of pants, a bra, and 4 tee shirts. It was a really productive afternoon! I even got her to try a Krispy Kreme lemon curd donut. She enjoyed it!

Me? I'm not doing anything much. This is good. It's been a while since the most stressful thing I had to worry about was which show to watch first! I've been catching up on Arrow, Flash, and Supergirl, and finally caught the crossever event episodes (which aired some half a year ago, I think?) as well as checking to see what (how many!) episodes I've missed on other series that I like to watch. I've spent a lot of time on my laptop this week just downloading TV shows and buying groceries.  

Speaking of, I've also decided to go Fish For Food this week. I typically abstain on Fridays in Lent but this year it's been tough as I often can't keep up with what day of the week it is in the first place, and I've found myself just reaching for whatever I have in my fridge cos I'm always in a rush or forgot to prep some seafood ahead of time. This is my way for making up for lost Fridays! 

I've gone and bought a whole bunch of fish fillets. Pollock. I love that word. I've been saying that every chance I get. I lugged home 1.2 kilos of pollock from the supermarket, I told BIKSS. It was on sale. The lot of it was got for 10 bucks. That's at least 10 portions right there - but considering I usually have other stuff with my salad, it's probably safer to say 15!

What else is in my freezer? Nothing. I've finished all the chicken. But that's a good thing. Cos now I won't have to decide which type of frozen protein I want to defrost for cooking up. It's all gonna be coming out fish!

And with that I should probably take my leave to go grill up more fish for dinner. See you tomorrow!

FFF 2.0 - 14 & Food from Faraway & FINALLY GOOD NEWS

Now that the sexcapade is over, I can show you the goodies BIKSS got me.

Anyone who's been to Ho Chi Minh will know that cashews are sold everywhere. I like that they've got some of the skin left on, altho many websites will tell you not to eat the skin cos of the resin which might cause gastrointestinal discomfort. But I'm convinced these are done in a way that renders them safe for consumption because I've had these "skin-on" cashews many many many times now, and it has never upset my tummy. The ones he got me are lightly salted and great for munching  on while writing posts - like I'm doing now. Nom nom nom.

Are they good for you? Yes. As with all foods  - too much is never a good thing. But in moderation, cashews pack a solid punch in terms of minerals and vitamins.

In the basement of one of the malls lives a bakery which sells these wafer things, topped with either almond flakes or sunflower seeds. I tried the sunflower ones last time we were there and it was really yummy so I asked BIKSS if he would get more for me. He did. 5 packs of the stuff. But along with that I got an almond one to try too. Alas, my loyalty to the sunflower wafer isn't as strong as it should be. The almond one is now my new favourite snack! And the thing I like best about it is how generous they are with the toppings!

Well after all that food, it is time to update everyone with this week's numbers. 

I've been at the high end of my usual weight range, but I suspect that's to do with not eating enough oats and therefore not pooping right for about 3 days now. I've finally managed a regular smooth poop and I think things will begin to move along just fine from now : )

Did you know there is a legit poop chart? I'm not going to paste the image here in case well, some of you are sensitive to that kind of thing. But click the link and it'll take you right to the wiki entry. 

Here are my numbers :

Average: 9,690 steps
Highest no : 13,919 steps
No of >10k steps days : 3

**The ROZ Update:

From last Sat to today I have done my exercises 4 days plus the stairs at work daily.


 **The OLIVIA Update:

Self-care : Stepping up, stepping out, and stepping forward!

And last but not least in this week's update - we just got word *like right now as I was writing this* that we managed to get an extension on the interim caregiver service (provided by the state / hospital) until the permanent caregiver arrives in 6 weeks' time. 

I'm hoping that there will be SOME overlap so that the current one can teach the new arrival everything, as well as create a sense of continuity so as not to raise the brother's suspicions as to where we got the new caregiver - we have two options here : live-in domestic helpers (24 hours) and day-time only caregivers (12 hours). And with the live-in domestic helpers we had in the past, the asshats took advantage of them and asked them to help out with chores around the house, bribing them with all sorts of treats. They would then feel bad if they didn't help out, but it really wasn't part of their job! And the mother wasn't helping either cos she's so afraid her stupid son will get mad at her.  I don't want that happening again, so even tho the new one WILL still be a live-in domestic helper (as far as the paperwork is concerned), I'm telling them all that she's an elder-caregiver and have her report to work at the parents' place during the day, but come back to my place to sleep nights.

And if the one we have which is provided by the state/hospital stays on till the new one arrives, it will just seem as if she's been replaced by the service provider for reasons unknown to us.

I've told mum to just feign ignorance and say she doesn't know anything, and that as far as she's concerned I've found a permanent daytime-only elder-caregiver.

OK, I realise this is all very complicated if you're not familiar with the system here, but suffice it to say this is all very good news and it's extremely welcome because this was like my last hope.

If this plan doesn't work then, well, I don't really wanna think about it. All I know is I NEED THIS TO WORK!

Thank you for all your kind emails and positive thoughts and virtual hugs. I appreciate them all. If you're the praying type, please (continue to) keep my parents in your prayers that this arrangement will stick and we won't have to resort to extreme measures (read: nursing homes).

The Post Worktrip Reunion (Part 2)

Part 1 can be found here.

When we got home he had me in the shower where I carefully removed my plug. It was all good. No harm no foul. 

I was still horny as anything. But that little adventure seemed to have tempered my libido somewhat. 

After towelling off we headed straight for some long-awaited cuddles. 

But that soon led to blowjob city. While he was watching the OM instructional video preoperly (cos he didn't get a chance to watch all of it before) I decided to ease some of the discomfort in his balls and ever-hardening cock. Oh wait. I think I might have been responsible for causing the hard-ship in the first place. *wink*

It was decided that he would have a cum first, so as not to prolong his agony (who cares about mine tho, right?) and after that he could OM me properly. Well, he's not a nasty fuck. I was the one who suggested it. Cos I'm a caring sub that way. :)

It didn't take too much effort for him to cum as he had also been orgasm-less during my no-cum period. I must say I was very touched that he abstained from cumming too, and chose to wait for me. I made a right mess with saliva dripping off him every-bluddy-where, so I towelled him off with a warm face cloth. We then we got into our OM positions and he proceeded to touch my very tingly, very horny, very needy lady bits. Ah, this is what I've been waiting for!

Eventually we gave up trying to follow the instructions (where to stroke, where to place the thumb) and just had a long and delightful session of touching, and fingering, and rubbing. It was made more exciting (and heightened the sense of submission) for me cos if you remember the OM position, he left leg is smack across my body. This meant I couldn't wiggle out from my position and my pussy was at his mercy. I'm sure this doesn't count as bondage per se. But I was definitely bound.

And I was going insane with needing to cum. 

So I finally asked him if I could have my vibe. 

He assisted;  finger(s) in pussy; heel of his palm resting and pressing against my vibe pushing on my clit. I think he had my nipples in his mouth too, but I can't be sure. I was only feeling the wonderful sensations on my deprived clit. 

I was going to cum, a great big cum, I could feel it, and I couldn't stop it. And I didn't even need to tense my muscles (he mentioned it after, and I said, well yeah, I kinda didn't need to!). It just rolled across my entire vulva, starting from the top and moving downwards and outwards. Yes. I know that isn't the most poetic description. But that's what it felt like. 

Daddy didn't need an invitation. He climbed on top of me and dived right into my pulsating pussy. 

I screamed with each thrust. I don't know whether it was because the contractions in my vagina were just so intense from that cum, or that we hadn't had sex in two weeks, but I felt full and bursting and it was amazing. 

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At the end of the whole evening tho, what mattered the most to me wasn't the great sex, the long-awaited cum, or even that we were celebrating 7 years of nooky. What I really loved about this whole exercise / episode was being able to submit and obey; being of service, and giving him pleasure; making him laugh and amusing him with my wit and tongue (no not just in that way... but yes, also in that way!) and most of all - giving him the opportunity to be the Daddy Dom that he is. 

The Post Worktrip Reunion (Part 1)

He wanted a little inspection he said. I could be on the bed he said. I waited and he arrived and every nerve ending was on fire when he touched me.

It went on for a long time. That was NOT a little inspection.

"Of course it is, you're my little, and I'm inspecting you."

Remember the plug he bought me as a gift from Germany? I do too. I try to forget about it. Or rather, I try to get HIM to forget about it. But he really likes this plug. And in it went. It didn't take very long, and I must say it felt good going in and popping in place.

He spanked my ass with his hands. Singing Good Vibrations as he did so. I was not amused.

"Can you sit up?"

I sat up. It wasn't too bad.

"Now sit on it. On your bum."

I did.

"Good. Let's go for dinner."

But as he moved along the side of the bed I got distracted by Roger. So he decided that I should have a taste before we left. Roger was dripping. It was delicious.

I finally got dressed, braless under a spaghetti top with the skirt I wore to work in the morning.

We went to the little cafe / bar / kitchen place we found last week (of soft taco fame) where we shared a burger and some quesadillas.

By the end of the evening I was more than ready to go home and remove that wretched plug from inside my bottom.

I asked him what it was about having me wear the plug that turned him on. Cos  I can't imagine just knowing I'm wearing it could be exciting for him in any way. He said it was knowing that I'm doing it for him because goodness knows it's not something I would choose to do voluntarily.

"So it's a Dom control thing?"

"Yeah. It's a control thing."

(This from the guy who said control was never his thing... yeah right!)

And now I have to be busy with real life things, so I shall continue on the morrow...