28 February 2019

It's the Little Things

It's the little things he does that turns me on,

... like pushing my thighs apart a little too forcefully

... or grabbing my hair as he's fucking my mouth

... like ignoring the gurgling and retching sounds from having his cock too deep in my throat

... and slapping my face while he's at it.

this was the gif that got me interested btw


It's the little things he says that gets me wet,

... take it off

... lie on your front, face in the pillow

... what do you want? I can't hear you

... who's Daddy's lidl fucktoy?


It's the little things he does that makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside,

... like when he climbs into bed and kisses my nipple before settling in beside me

... how he strokes my back absently while we're chatting about our day

... or the way he nose-kisses my forehead - like a sniff more than a kiss!



26 February 2019

Tuesday Toon #45


That reminds me. I am behind on Vikings!


I thought that was kinda cute. Especially since I'm always having tunes stuck in my head.


This was BIKSS' response to my teasing him about being gay cos he knows way too much about fashion. Don't get me wrong. I have plenty of gay friends. And I love them. It's just something we do.


Come into my parlour, said the spider to the fly... no thanks. 


I bet it would be lost on some of the people on my FB list too. Sigh.


This. Is. So. Me. Everyday!


TRUTH!


I'm not even sure if that is the gentleman speaking, or the lady. 


Which one was your favourite? 

25 February 2019

The Fuck Fairy

It's kinda funny that NJ posted about the fat fairy this week too, cos it seems that's the theme of the week around the blogs. 

On Friday just before BIKSS came round to get me to go to the carnival, he texted and said he was almost here. I said well, I'm just out of the shower - should I get dressed (and meet him at the carpark so we could zoom off) or would he prefer me naked? 

No prizes for guessing which one he chose. 

Anyway, we had ourselves a romp and when he was done he got off me to grab tissues to wipe up, and as he stepped away from the bed he said "oh, a coin." It had fallen out of his trouser pocket earlier. My legs were still in the air, and I felt around on the bed just where my hand landed beside my hip, and picked up a dollar. 

"Ooh I got a whole dollar. The Fuck Fairy must have come and left me a coin for that fuck!" we both had a good laugh at that!


24 February 2019

FFF 2.0 - 8 And the Weekly Bulletin

You know what this means right? This means I'm going to start doing FFF posts on Sat / Sun from now on. Why? Because I just don't have the bandwidth during the week to sit down in front of my computer and post this stuff. 

I think I kinda got used to NOT having a laptop so much so that I find I'm not turning it on as often as I did before. Perhaps that will change back to the way it was before, but for now... here are the numbers. 

Average : 13,059
Highest : 16,557
No of >10k days : 6

I learnt something today. It's called the 4 stages of competence.

From Wikipedia:

The four stages are:

Unconscious incompetence


The individual does not understand or know how to do something and does not necessarily recognize the deficit. They may deny the usefulness of the skill. The individual must recognize their own incompetence, and the value of the new skill, before moving on to the next stage. The length of time an individual spends in this stage depends on the strength of the stimulus to learn.

Conscious incompetence

Though the individual does not understand or know how to do something, they recognize the deficit, as well as the value of a new skill in addressing the deficit. The making of mistakes can be integral to the learning process at this stage.

Conscious competence

The individual understands or knows how to do something. However, demonstrating the skill or knowledge requires concentration. It may be broken down into steps, and there is heavy conscious involvement in executing the new skill.

Unconscious competence

The individual has had so much practice with a skill that it has become "second nature" and can be performed easily. As a result, the skill can be performed while executing another task. The individual may be able to teach it to others, depending upon how and when it was learned.

And this can be applied to almost any area of life. 

For example, it even applies to oral sex. 

  1. Unconscious incompetence - NO blowjob
  2. Conscious incompetence - BAD blowjob
  3. Conscious competence - PRACTISES giving blowjobs
  4. Unconscious competence - THE FONDLES EXPERIENCE 


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OK, news this week - I bought an iphone! An XR. And got mum a new phone too cos hers actually died last week but my laptop guy managed to rescusitate it - not sure how long it will last, and it IS an old phone so it was time for her to get a replacement anyway. 


I got me a white one! It's so new and shiny, I'm loving it!

On Wed BIKSS came by to get me for lunch. I took him to a pokebowl place I had been introduced to the week before. After that I went on a ride-along since I didn't have anything else to do that afternoon. 

And for dinner - lettuce wraps. Seriously. Grab some coral leaf (they open up to be quite big!), slap some ham and cheese on that, and roll it up! 

On Friday I baked more cakes (no, it will never end, in case you're wondering) and in the evening BIKSS took me to a carnival. We also accidentally stumbled upon more light installations around the city area (part of the same city festival I mentioned last week), some more interactive than others. BIKSS asked if I wanted to go and play with some of the things, and I said NO. "Not a participant, huh?" Yup. Got THAT right. 

I enjoyed taking pictures and reading all the informative signs along the way tho. We ended up walking for a little more than an hour I think. THAT'S where I get all my steps! You'll see those stats next week :)


and Roz has kindly expanded on her comment in an email to me:

~ After the time off exercises it's like I'm starting all over again with them rather than maintaining the exercises, and starting out is hard. Thankfully the muscles aren't as sore now. It's still a struggle but hopefully I'm slowly getting back in the zone.

19 February 2019

Dating Cards And Valentine's Day

So a friend of mine sent me these as we were talking about weird dating rules in the modern age, and how someone asking another person out could be deemed offensive these days (no, I'm not going to elaborate as it's a long long story involving another two people we know). 

She commented that people in the Victorian era figured out a way to be clear - and these cards  also probably gave the lady some idea of a bloke's creativity and humour. 

CLICK TO ENLARGE

You can find some more examples here - AWKWARD DATING CARDS

Last Friday we went to a pipe organ recital, me and BIKSS. And along the way he presented me THIS card:


Best Valentine's Day present ever. (I've deleted some personal info for anonymity). 

After the concert we walked along a lighted up bridge that was done up in honour of some city festival, and then walked through the carnival area of a Chinese New Year parade that had gone on earlier, where we treated ourselves to a Strawberry Cheesecake flavoured gelato! Yum :) If you see teeth marks, um, that's my fault. Oops. 



Mrs Fever, I'm not sure if it's as good as the ones you've had, but it reminded me of you all the same!]

17 February 2019

FFF 2.0 - 7 & Sing a Song of Panties

Yes, I realise it is Sunday.

Yes, I realise it's supposed to be Fit for FRIDAY.

Yes, I know you lovely people won't hold it against me because you all rock!

Here are the numbers.

Average - 14,859
Highest - 19,025
No of more than 10k days - EVERYDAY YAY!

I was chatting with a friend and her autocorrect ended up sending me a message that said something about attending a class on cultural appreciation and how they spent time on panties. (It wasn't supposed to be panties... but I guess you figured that out.)

I laughed so hard. And then wrote this -

The panty is an oft worn piece
a garment many treasure
The female form's allure it seems
increases many a measure
When lace is added,
satin used,
Some bows and ribbons added
But one thing I shall never fathom-
those with bottoms padded!

I like singing it to 'Sing a Song of Sixpence'.



And now, here are the links :

Oh Olivia I wish thy feet be painful no more... or at least, a little less in the coming days.

Dear Julie here's to a lovely vacation that's coming up soon!

Roz's Comment Update : 

Believe it or not, I tried my exercises yesterday and today! Try being the operative word! I wondered how I had ever done them before. I found it hard to get my coordination and I only managed a fraction of the normal number, but it's a start.

- Well, it's true it IS a start! Good luck getting back to it :)


14 February 2019

Happy Valentine's Day

Moments

I want you to kneel before me and reach for my belt buckle. Watch you as you unbuckle my belt and slip my jeans and boxers down to the floor, releasing Roger to your gaze. I long to feel the touch of your hands and that first lick as you glide your tongue along my length, your eyes never leaving mine until that moment you finally give in to the desire, close your eyes and bury your face into me. That moment when where you are is all that exists.

~BIKSS


9 February 2019

A Word From BIKSS on Being Daddy

Fondles asked me to write a post for the blog about why I still want to be Daddy even though sometimes things go wonky, and I was halfway through writing the post when my laptop decided to go walkabout with my efforts. 

Crash and burn! Document not even saved automatically. 

So here I am again, starting from scratch. 

[Your effort is much appreciated Daddy.]

I haven’t given much thought as to why I am Daddy and I have to admit I have never thought of giving up being Daddy, mainly because I believe Fondles is worth my time and my love. 

I still see the person I cared for so long ago. I guess it’s just like it is when you live with someone losing or putting on weight, you seldom notice anything different until that “Eureka” moment when you suddenly notice a huge difference from the person you first knew. 

Don’t get me wrong, she is right in saying there are wonky moments. She can be difficult, as can most strong and smart women, but over the years, mainly before we got involved in the relationship, I’ve learnt that that is just her way of dealing with things. Offence is the best defence. 

I want to be that person whom she runs to so she doesn’t have to be constantly on the offence, the one person she can come to and, for a time, let go of the day-to-day. 

Through her I learn patience. Yes, lidl one, it takes effort as does anything that deserves my time.  

Anyway, that’s the way I see it.

It’s definitely not a one-sided situation. She is good for me too. 

I can be a bit of a pain as well of course. 

I have told her she is my “eye of the storm”. When I’ve had a hard day at work and I feel irritated and worn out, being in her arms calms me. For a time the only thing that exists is another being in my arms. I can take a deep breath and relax. I hope that I do the same for her. 

[You do.]

She enjoys experiencing things for the first time and I like being able to give her new experiences when I can.

She told me once before that she could never let her guard down with her previous boyfriends because they just didn’t step up. Even their cuddle-time was more about HER cuddling THEM than the other way around. I hope I step up enough for her. 

I don’t want to disappoint her, having been given this amazing opportunity to be the man she allows to see her at her most vulnerable, when she relaxes and lets the worries of the day take a backseat for a while. 

Hopefully I make her happy, I know she makes ME happy, and maybe I’m a good influence on her. I certainly hope so, because, as I said at the beginning of this post, she is worth it. 

And that’s why I continue to be Daddy.


8 February 2019

FFF 2.0 - 6 and CNY day 3

Hello here it is - the numbers for last week :

Average daily step count :  14,859
Highest no of steps : Saturday - 19,025 (that's the day I went to Chinatown with my peeps!)
More than 10k steps : everyday!

[Edit: Here is Olivia's post with some very interesting pics of a house that's being listed as "50 Shades of Maple Glenn"

Roz hasn't quite gotten back to her exercise regime, but she IS still doing the stairs daily! 


Julie's step numbers are going up but she hasn't had time for a post, so keep a lookout for a double-up post from her this coming Friday!]

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BIKSS was on leave Thursday so he came to get me from work. We ate at a little Teochew restaurant near my place. The food is good - but it's not cheap! I treated him to lunch, which cost about 80 bucks for two of us. 

We had some coffee pork ribs, self-made tofu with mince meat (which translates to NOT bought from a supplier) and yam paste for dessert. Oh and how could I forget the traditional South East Asian Raw Fish dish!





After that we came home to play! 

He did say earlier that morning that we seldom get to play for an extended period of time, with no one home to boot - so he was looking forward to some restraints and unbeknownst to me, a plug or two! 

He played with his viking, and I played with my jewel plug and vibe and all in all there were some good cums had!

At one point he pulled out his belt and wrapped it around me, presumably to hold down my arms against my body - only it was too big and we laughed about it. In the end we used one of my own belts, and since it was meant for my waist, it did get a little squeezy.. but that was the whole point wasn't it? *wink*

That is all for today's update.

Stay tuned for a special post from BIKSS tomorrow!

6 February 2019

Wrigglebutt

It was the eve of Chinese New Year and I had a bunch of stuff to do... which I tried to rush through before BIKSS dropped in for a quick hello before we took a break from our usual schedule for the CNY rush. Well, me, more than him. 


I mopped the floor, did some laundry, packed things away, put out some CNY decor, got the dining table ready, changed the sheets... all the things that people usually do over a few days in preparation but which I didn't have the luxury of doing cos you know, I was only baking too many cakes! 

He came in with a festive pack of canned drinks - hurray - I had forgotten to pick some up and when I did remember that day on the way home from work I already had a bunch of things to lug home from the store. 


So I asked if he could pick some up for me on the way over. I hopped into the shower and then back into the room. He was stretched out on the bed and fiddling with his fone while waiting for me. I got into bed and knelt on my ankles by his side. As I leaned on his tummy I felt something cold and hard pressing against me.

- Your belt buckle is in the way. :(

- Oh, then I should take it off! 

- But your jeans are stiff and scratchy :p

- Actually, it's probably easier for me to take the whole thing off than to just pull the belt thru the loops

(I gave him a look that said "uh huh, that's convenient" and he totally caught it and laughed!)

- No really... I'm not trying to make excuses for taking my pants off!

- Uh huh. I didn't say anything! Um, but your shirt's gonna get crumpled.

He took that off too. 

LOL. Now he was in his undershirt and boxers. Perfect. 

- Are we gonna have sex? 

- Do you want to? 

- Yes :D

- Do you want a spanking? Pfft. Stupid question!

Haha. YES, stupid question. Oh, I did interrupt him while he was spanking my butt - to give HIM a smack on his butt in honour of his birthday :) 

And then he resumed. Spanking. Fingering me. Feeling me wet. Whispering nasty things into my ear. 

- Are you ready for Roger? Is pussy ready for Daddy's cock? Does she wanna get a fucking now? 

Mmmm yesssss! 

I was face down on the bed. He entered me and as he fucked my wet hole a hand found my neck. His other hand made its way to my mouth, and I latched on to his finger(s), sucking on them as his hips pushed against my ass. 

It went on for a while and then he stopped. I know what it was. He was holding back. Or trying to anyway. If he continued to thrust he'd come for sure. 

But that also means that yummy feeling in my pussy was no more. No more cock moving in and out, no more Roger pushing his way into my depths, no more. And I wanted more! 

So I wriggled. I squeezed my butt cheeks and tensed up my thighs, alternating between clenching and releasing.. and wriggling my ass so that my weight shifts from left to right, moving my pussy around his cock. 

He likes it when I wriggle. Or should I say, Roger likes it. Roger didn't stand a chance. 

Roger wanted to cum. 

I like wriggling to make him cum :)



3 February 2019

2 February 2019

This Dance & FFF 2.0 - 5

This dance we do...

...is one where I nag him about things that affect his health - and he listens and does something about them

...is one where I get to rant and rave about things that upset me and he doesn't counter with his own point of view - even when he disagrees with me

...is one where he silently reminds me on the plane - via a hand around my neck as I'm lying down with my head in his lap - that I'm his little girl

...is one where he reaches for my nipple, bum, anything, anywhere, and I give him access, because I am his, and I trust that he's not being inappropriate, even when we're in public

...is one where he reminds me, with a single word, that I'm distracting those around me in the cinema when my phone buzzes and I've picked it up to read messages

...is one where I promptly shut the case of said phone instead of getting pissed at being "told off"

...is also one where he then whispers to ask if everything is ok... and I know that that is my cue to go ahead and check but be mindful of the glare - I turn the light down super low

...is one where so many things are unspoken, but a single word could be loaded with so much meaning

...is a dance I can do only with him.


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and now,  FFF #5!

I'm a day late I know. Ooops.

The baking. I blame the baking.

OK here it is:

Average count - 15,584
Highest no - 20,488
More than 10k - EVERYDAY

This week's links so far -

Julie's hiccup

Olivia got her lab results back

& here's Roz's Update : 

Way to go on your steps. Wow! I still need to get back to my exercises. Sigh. Still doing the stairs though.



1 February 2019

Pictures and more Pictures - HCMC and BIKSS' Birthday Dinner

This is probably not going to be one of my more organised posts but I promised pics and here they are!

So yesterday we went shopping across the border... wait, I mean, the day before... here are some food pics. We ate at our fave Jap place, and I told BIKSS I'm not taking anymore fotos for the blog cos we always eat the same thing. So this time we made it a point to order stuff we'd never tried there. 


Tempura, and that's some agedashi tofu on the side


They do a mean yakitori. And bacon tastes great with everything!


Some soup thing. Which turned out to be light and refreshing.


And this was part of the set that the tempura came with. Turns out we over-ordered again! 

Right. That was effectively BIKSS' birthday dinner cos we won't be able to celebrate together on the actual day, what with my crazy baking schedule and his having to attend a funeral on that day and all. He got the news today about the unfortunate timing... but see? Good thing we already had our celebration dinner!

Here's a hoodie that BIKSS got me for movie dates - they always turn the a/c to freeze-your-butt-off-temperatures so I'm always numb somewhere by the time the movie's done. I thought the phoenix on the back was kinda cool and unexpected. 



Speaking of gifts, the shirt I got him for Christmas only JUST arrived. I know right? 

This is him trying it on last night :)


If you've never watched "How I Met Your Mother" you probably wouldn't get it. But um, yeah, he likes it! Yay! (Plus, I like how the fit is so flattering!)


Oh this was a photo I meant to attach to the previous Bak Kwa post but forgot.. heh. Oops. I thought the drink cups were awesome! They're bigger than the rice bowls we ate out of! LOL. 

Um... moving backwards... here are some holiday photos from our trip to Ho Chi Minh :


OK this was the control panel in the room by the bed. First of all, for some reason we couldn't get the entrance light working... and each time we entered the room the lights would come on in some default preset where everything was dim and we couldn't see anything. Mostly because the hallway light wouldn't come on. I would then sit by the bed and try to turn everything on individually, and as  I sat there and looked around trying to figure out what came on and what didn't,  BIKSS would just walk over to me and press the MASTER button. This of course does the complete opposite of what we want - it turns everything OFF! The first time he did it he said, well, who knew it would turn things off instead of ON. But each time we came back to the room he would forget and press it again! By the 3rd or 4th time I teased him, "Just cos it says Master doesn't mean you have to press it!" He laughed at that. And stopped doing it :)


Our favourite pizza place (Pizza 4Ps) had a camembert ice cream on their limited-time menu. So we decided to give it a try. If there's one thing they failed at this was it. Everything else on the menu was simply to die for. Both of us sat there with bits of ice cream in our mouths trying to figure it out. I think my brain just couldn't handle the fact that it was cheese flavoured ice cream. Or ice cream textured cheese. Whatever the case, it was a big fat X from both of us. No ticks for this one.



That's me out on the terrace / patio type thing in front of the hotel having a ciggy with my morning coffee. 

After breakfast we headed to Chinatown to walk around the markets and pick up some tees and shorts (for BIKSS) and random items for me - nipple shields, face powder, novelty pens.  We also bought too much coffee :)





It's filled with way  too many shops!


Each tiny square is a shop. They number in the hundreds! If you click on the picture and enlarge it you'll see the numbers on the squares. This is the chart of the lower level. There's a second floor too.


View of Bitexco Tower from the street


View of the Saigon River from the 51st floor of Bitexco tower where we had lunch at a restuarant called EON51.

Then we went to the Heineken museum (also in Bitexco tower) where the guide couldn't speak English to save her life and there was not a lot of anything to see.  But at the end we got to try our hand at pouring a draft...



And we got personalised Heineken beer bottles. So that was worth the torturous tour, I thought.

After that it was time to go to dinner at The Deck. I think I might have mentioned it in a post a while back. Lucky for me I had a longish skirt in my suitcase and a choker to dress things up a bit. Some of the diners were in suits and long dresses... I didn't expect it to be such a formal affair!


Here are some pics of that most enjoyable dinner which is also the very first time I tried ceviche. Which isn't too much of a stretch from sashimi, really, and I do enjoy me my sashimi!


Top : Yellow Fin Tuna Ceviche with Red Onion, Tomato, Ginger Shoot and Coriander 

Bottom : Roast Duck, Watermelon, Cashew Nut, Cress Salad with Hoisin and Lime dressing 


Top Left : Pork Belly Chicken Dumplings with a Soy, Ginger and Shallot dipping sauce 

Top Right : Spinach with Cream Miso

Bottom Left:  Grilled Broccolini with Sesame, Soy and Crispy Garlic
(aka the best Broccolini this side of the planet)

Bottom Right: Baked Sea Bass seasoned with Coconut, Lemongrass and Chilli 
The green dollop is a savoury wasabi sauce, and the brown one is a miso based sauce. 


Warm Chocolate Sauce beside the Chocolate Bomb


Warm Chocolate Sauce melting the Chocolate Bomb


Inside the chocolate bomb - poached berries and vanilla ice cream.

NICE!



And that's the view from our table on the deck. On the left are the windows of the indoor section of the restaurant and that's the Saigon River we're sitting over.


Made it to Maison Marou!


Breakfast the next morning was had at Maison Marou - a bean-to-bar artisinal chocolate place. The chocolate brownie had chunks of chocolate in it, and when I ordered the banana muffin I sure wasn't expecting chocolate in there as well! It was good tho. I would definitely go back there!


On our previous trip we didn't buy anything from here because 1) I didn't know how good the chocolate is, and 2) I didn't bring a lot of money and the stuff here definitely isn't the cheapest. But considering it's as good as it is, it's pretty worth it! I came prepared this time!





Then English Tea at The Majestic Saigon. Because I love English afternoon tea. I wish they had scones tho. The Majestic Malacca had scones. Hrmph.  Still, it was a relaxing afternoon spent in a posh hotel with Daddy so it was all good!


There was an interesting "wedding" cruise ship diagonally across the (very big, very many-laned, very heavy-trafficked) road from the hotel. 


We walked over to take a look while waiting for the tea service to start. I got us there too early, so what better way to kill time than by working up an appetite and enjoying the sights while we're at it!



We went shopping at a nearby mall, then headed over to have dinner at a quaint little French restaurant called La Cuisine where we had braised beef cheek with truffle mash and a double salmon fettucine. 

The food was really good. But I much preferred the ambience over at The Deck.


We found quite a yummy Banh Mi for breakfast on our last morning. The lady was super calm as she pointed at the ingredients in front of her one at a time by way of asking us if we wanted each item included in our sandwich. Didn't bother her one bit that we couldn't speak the same language. At the end of it she pointed at a number shown on the price list behind her and we paid up! Easy peasy and so delish!

After more wandering around the local markets we headed back to Pizza 4Ps for lunch. We had already decided before our trip that it would be where we'd have our first and last meals!


We had a fruit and parma ham + burrata salad to start... 

Then we had a half & half Salmon Miso Cream and Soy Garlic Beef pizza which we couldn't finish so we packed it up and finished it later on at the airport just before our flight.




'Dessert' was a Truffle Burrata Pie with Parma Ham. It's burrata cheese wrapped in parma ham and wrapped in pastry and baked. On the spot. The perfect ending to our food journey in Vietnam!