It had to happen some time.
We had 3 pretty awesome years, and the shit has hit the ceiling. We're in a bit of a limbo now and I'm not sure what will happen after.
It's not like I've been writing much anyway.
So I've gone private and whoever I had on my contact list has been added to the invite-list.
If anyone asks any of you about the blog, send them my way via email and I'll be happy to add them.
But I think the time has come for me to retire. Whatever's here is here. And I'll leave it up. But I suspect this will be my final post.
Thank you all for letting me read your blogs and peep into your personal lives.
Thank you for being so warm and helpful when we were starting out, and when we were trying to find something that fit us.
My email's still active, so you know where to find me.
Hopefully I'll have something to write about soon.
BIKSS and I are in our 50s. We met in 1988 but it took us 24 years before hooking up in 2012. We moved into a DD/lg dynamic a year later. In April 2015 some shit hit the fan. We took some time off but eventually found a new us. I used to live alone except for a few shifting years when my folks moved in then out, then after dad passed on, mum moved in again. Now that she too has passed, it's just me, one carer whom I've decided to keep on, and my tenant. He lives with his family. This is us.