I am officially in my forTIES. The year of being forTY is now over and this has been my second birthday with BIKSS as, well, BIKSS and not just the friend he was before.
We had a most satisfying dinner at a cosy restaurant tucked away in a small street on the outskirts of town. It was expensive but worth the price, I think. And I want to go back there next year!
The whole house was in residence so my birthday spanking was carried out with a 'rubber cane'. It's supposed to be a pet-training (target?) stick - but with the spade-end taken off, it works just like a regular cane. Only more thwacky. I suppose it's like a cane made out of bungee cord material.
He began tappety-tapping but it was way more ouchy than the regular cane so I found myself rolling all over the place. He chuckled and "helped" me stay in place by wrapping his hand on my right thigh to keep me still while spanking my right cheek - then rinse and repeat on the left!
It *did* keep me quiet. So I guess that worked.
And after that it was Roger in my mouth for dessert! And BIKSS says he suspects that having to keep quiet enhances the experience for him too! LOL.
The difference between this birthday (and Christmas) and the last? Everything felt more natural and less awkward. I was more confident in asking him for a specific gift, probably because he spent the last year teaching me that it was perfectly ok for me to tell him what I want without having to worry that I would come across as needy or greedy. (I was taught it's not polite to ask for ANYTHING, whether it's a gift or otherwise!)
He was also much more forthcoming in the GETTING of the gifts. It seems as if he is much more willing to spoil his little girl these days - he agrees that this is indeed a new development for him, possibly because he never liked buying gifts - cos he was never in the habit of doing so - cos he never had to before.
Well, I'd say apart from getting older, we BOTH got a bit wiser too!
